{"id":3316,"date":"2021-11-18T10:00:49","date_gmt":"2021-11-18T08:00:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/investigate-islam.com\/?p=3316"},"modified":"2021-11-18T10:00:49","modified_gmt":"2021-11-18T08:00:49","slug":"peacebuilding-a-collection-of-stories-and-anecdotes-from-theprophet-muhammads-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/investigate-islam.com\/web\/?p=3316","title":{"rendered":"Peacebuilding ..  A Collection of Stories and Anecdotes from theProphet Muhammad\u2019s Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>\n<strong>September 15, 2012<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Qamar-ul Huda, Ph.D.<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>United States Institute of Peace<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Religion &amp; Peacemaking Center<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>\u201cPeacebuilding: A Collection of Stories and Anecdotes from the<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Prophet Muhammad\u2019s Life\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>1. Determining the notions violence, conflict sensitivity, and apply the \u201cdo not<br \/>\nharm\u00bb principle.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Violence prevention and non-violence<\/strong><br \/>\n\u2022 Prophet Muhammad (s) said, &#8220;Never aspire for confronting your enemies (in a fight). Pray to<br \/>\nGod to be among those who seek living peacefully with others. But if ever you confront them (in<br \/>\na fight) be patient and know that Heaven is as close to you as the shades of the swords.&#8221;<br \/>\n[Narrated by Al Bukhari, Muslim and Abu Dawoud- authorities on Sunna &amp; hadith]<br \/>\n\u2022 In the legal text of the Medina Charter, which is described as the first constitution of the City of<br \/>\nMedina&#8217;s government which was founded by the Prophet in the first year of the Migration, he<br \/>\nlaid down this principle: &#8220;Pious believers will oppose any aggressor or anyone who<br \/>\nintentionally plans an unjust action or crime or a violation of rights or anyone who has<br \/>\nintention to create conflict among the believers. Even if this person is one of their children, all<br \/>\ntheir hands will be raised against him.&#8221;<br \/>\nProphet Muhammad Demonstrated Patience and Tolerance to Negative Reactions:<br \/>\n\u2022 During the first thirteen years of Prophet Muhammad\u2019s prophetic mission in Mecca (610-622<br \/>\nAD), Mecca\u2019s wealthy elite vehemently opposed the his monotheistic message and unleashed a<br \/>\nheavy toll of physical and economic persecution upon Islam\u2019s weakest followers. Nevertheless,<br \/>\nProphet Muhammad unconditionally forbade retaliation and enjoined a complete and patient<br \/>\ncommitment to nonviolence. When persecution became intolerable, he and the early Muslims<br \/>\nmigrated to Medina, where he established a sovereign state in 622 AD.<br \/>\n\u2022 When the Prophet Muhammad finally returned to the city of Mecca with victory, he came in<br \/>\nwith a powerful army of 10,000 strong. If he wanted, he could have taken revenge and<br \/>\nmassacred the Makkans fro their plotting and treachery. Instead he came to them and said, \u201cI<br \/>\nsay as my brother Joseph said: \u2018No blame will there be upon you today. Allah will forgive you,<br \/>\n{00135022 v1} 2<br \/>\nand He is the most Merciful of the merciful.\u2019\u201d Then the Prophet told the people of Makkah, \u201cGo<br \/>\nback to your homes for you are all free.\u201d<br \/>\n\u2022 Prophet Muhammad&#8217;s wife Aisha asked him if he had ever lived through a more difficult day<br \/>\nthan that of the Battle of Uhud. He answered as follows: &#8220;Yes, I have experienced much<br \/>\noppression from your tribe. The worst of this was what they did to me on the day of Akabe (in<br \/>\nTaif). I wanted to seek shelter with Ibn Abdulyalil in Taif, but he refused (to help me). He<br \/>\nturned me away and I was walking away in deep sorrow. By the time I had arrived at<br \/>\nKarnussealib I still had not recovered. When I lifted my head there I saw a cloud shadowing<br \/>\nme. When I looked closely I saw Angel Gabriel in the cloud. Gabriel called to me: &#8220;Allah has<br \/>\nheard what you said to the tribe and how they have refused you. He has sent you the Angel of<br \/>\nthe Mountain.&#8217; Then the Angel of the Mountain called to me and greeted me. Then he said \u2018O<br \/>\nMuhammad! Allah heard what the tribe has done. I am the Angel of the Mountain. What do<br \/>\nyou want me to do? If you wish I can bring these two mountains down on their heads.&#8217; Then I<br \/>\nsaid \u2018No, I only wish from Allah that they will worship Allah and not see anything as partners<br \/>\nto Him.'&#8221; (27)<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\n<strong>Patience is better than Retaliation<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8220;And if you take your turn, then retaliate with the like of that with which you were afflicted; but if you<br \/>\nare patient, it will certainly be best for those who are patient.&#8221; (Qur&#8217;an, 16:126) Whereupon<br \/>\nMuhammad (saw) said: &#8220;I shall exhibit patience over this calamity.&#8221;<br \/>\n\u2022 \u201cAn Abyssinian slave, who killed Hamza, Muhammad\u2019s uncle, in the battle of Uhud, and after<br \/>\nthe victory of Makkah embraced Islam and came to him, was forgiven. The wife of Abu Sufyan<br \/>\nhad cut the chest of Hamza and torn his liver and heart into pieces in the battle of Uhud, She<br \/>\nquietly came to the Prophet and accepted Islam, He recognised her but did not say anything,<br \/>\nShe was so impressed by his character and stature that she said, \u201cO God\u2019s Messenger, no tent<br \/>\nwas more deserted in my eyes than yours; but today no tent is more lovely in my eyes than<br \/>\nyours\u201d<br \/>\n\u2022 In the battle of Uhud when the polytheists cracked the Prophet\u2019s jaw and split open his blessed<br \/>\nface, the companions asked him to call upon Allah to damn them. He responded, \u201cI was not sent<br \/>\nto damn people, but as a mercy unto them.\u201d1 According to another narration he then<br \/>\nsupplicated, \u201cO God, guide my people for they know not what they do.\u201d<br \/>\n\u2022 The story of a woman who threw garbage on Prophet Muhammad explains the Prophet&#8217;s<br \/>\npatience and tolerance:<br \/>\nOne old woman made a habit of throwing rubbish on the Prophet Muhammad whenever he<br \/>\npassed from her house on the way to the Mosque. Even when the old woman threw rubbish on<br \/>\nhim, he would pass silently without showing any anger or annoyance. This was a regular, daily<br \/>\n{00135022 v1} 3<br \/>\nevent. One day when the Holy Prophet was passing by the old woman was not there to throw<br \/>\nthe rubbish.<br \/>\nHe stopped and asked the neighbor about her well-being. The neighbor informed the Prophet<br \/>\nthat the old woman was sick in bed. The Prophet politely asked permission to visit the old<br \/>\nwoman. When allowed he entered the house, the old woman thought that he had come there<br \/>\nto take his revenge when she was unable to defend herself because of sickness. But the Prophet<br \/>\nassured her that he had come to her, not to take any revenge, but to see her and to look after<br \/>\nher needs, as it was the command of Almighty Allah that if any one is sick, a Muslim should visit<br \/>\nhim and should help him if his help is needed.<br \/>\nThe Prophet said: \u2018Whoever suffers an injury done to him and forgives (the person responsible), Allah<br \/>\nwill raise his status to a higher degree and remove one of his sins.\u2019<br \/>\n(Al-Tirmidhi)<br \/>\n\u2022 Anas , a close Companion of Prophet Muhammad reported, &#8220;A Jewish woman brought a<br \/>\npoisoned lamb to the Prophet and he ate of it. When the woman was brought to him, people<br \/>\nsuggested, &#8216;Shall we kill her?&#8217; The Prophet said, &#8216;No.&#8217; I have recognized the effects of that<br \/>\npoisoning in the Prophet&#8217;s throat ever since.&#8221; (Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, Ahmad, and<br \/>\nothers).<br \/>\nIn the light of the foregoing, the Prophet&#8217;s tendency to forgive that woman, which was manifested in his<br \/>\nimmediate reaction to the suggestion of his Companions that they should kill her, is highly significant.<br \/>\nHe always forgave even the most hardened of his enemies.<br \/>\n\u2022 Habir ibn al-Aswad was another vicious enemy of Muhammad and of Islam, He had inflicted a<br \/>\ngrievous injury to Zainab, daughter of the Holy Prophet, She was pregnant and was emigrating<br \/>\nto Medinah, The polytheists of Makkah obstructed her and Habbar bin al-Aswad intentionally<br \/>\nthrew her down from the camel, She was badly hurt and had a miscarriage, He had committed<br \/>\nmany other crimes as well, He wanted to run away to Persia but then he came to Muhammad,<br \/>\nwho forgave him.<br \/>\n2. Conflict gender analysis<br \/>\nThe Prophet considered how women and other vulnerable groups in society were affected by conflict:<br \/>\n\u2022 The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) once saw the corpse of a woman who had been<br \/>\nkilled in a military action, and he disapproved of it and forbade the killing of women and<br \/>\nchildren.<br \/>\nAbu Bakr as-Siddiq, a companion of the Prophet Muhammad and his successor as head of the<br \/>\nMuslim community, advised one of his military commanders: &#8220;Do not kill women or children or<br \/>\nan aged, infirm person. Do not cut down fruit-bearing trees. Do not destroy an inhabited<br \/>\nplace.&#8221; [Al-Muwatta]<br \/>\n\u2022 Women should be equally included and participate in peacebuilding efforts:<br \/>\n{00135022 v1} 4<br \/>\n3. Instruments of conflict analysis<br \/>\nProphet Muhammad always gathered the facts from all sides to understand the conflict:<br \/>\nDuring Muhammad&#8217;s time a cottage was built on a piece of land belonging to two brothers. The heirs<br \/>\ndisputed regarding which brother the cottage belonged to. They went to the Prophet to resolve the<br \/>\nissue. He assigned Huzayfa b. Yemin to handle the case. Huzayfa went to the cottage for discovery and<br \/>\ninvestigation, took statements from various people, applied to witnesses and presented his decision to<br \/>\nthe Prophet for his approval. He considered the decision and approved it. In the institution of justice<br \/>\nestablished by the Prophet, the judge makes a decision according to evidence; thus, a wrong cannot be<br \/>\nmade right with his decision. For this reason, false witnessing and the presentation of unfounded<br \/>\nevidence were emphatically forbidden. Gains made by deceiving a judge and getting a positive decision<br \/>\nalthough it is not one&#8217;s right is referred to as &#8220;A piece of fire&#8221; by the Prophet. (10)<br \/>\nThe Prophet Muhammad was always neutral when trying to understand and resolve conflicts:<br \/>\nHe decided the cases even of his enemies with strict justice and fairness. His enemies brought their suits<br \/>\nto him without any fear or hesitation for they knew that they would get justice only from him. The Holy<br \/>\nProphet did not distinguish between a friend and foe in matters of justice: \u201cO You who believe! Stand<br \/>\nout firmly for God as witnesses to justice, and let not the enmity of others incite you to act contrary to<br \/>\njustice. Be always just, that is next to\u2019 piety. Be mindful of your duty to God.\u201d It is surely an act of merit<br \/>\nto do justice among friends and in a favorable or neutral atmosphere, but real greatness lies in doing<br \/>\njustice to people who are one\u2019s open enemies. The Holy Prophet, as head of the Muslim state of<br \/>\nMedinah, always treated his enemies, including Jews and unbelievers, with justice and equity.<br \/>\nThe Commentators explain this passage with reference to the case of Ta\u2019ima ibn Ubairaq, who was<br \/>\nnominally a Muslim but really a Hypocrite, and given to all sorts of wicked deeds. He was suspected of<br \/>\nhaving stolen a set of armor, and when the trial was hot, he planted the stolen property into the house<br \/>\nof a Jew, where it was found. The Jew denied the charge and accused Taima, but the sympathies of the<br \/>\nMuslim community were with Tai\u2019ma on account of his nominal profession of Islam. The case was<br \/>\nbrought to the Prophet, who acquitted the Jew according to the strict principle of justice, as \u201cguided by<br \/>\nAllah.\u201d Attempts were made to prejudice him and deceive him into using his authority to favor Ta\u2019ima.<br \/>\nWhen Ta\u2019ima realized that his punishment was imminent he fled and turned apostate.<br \/>\n4. Skills of effective communication<br \/>\nProphet Muhammad (pbuh) was someone who understood the importance of communicating with<br \/>\npeople; he did not converse or embrace only believers. Rather he saw all people, irrespective of religion,<br \/>\nlanguage, race, sex, social status or role as possessing value and thus he established good<br \/>\ncommunication with all of them. Prophet Muhammad brought the divine message into a form that<br \/>\npeople could perceive, hear and feel, about which they could read, talk and write; he set examples that<br \/>\ncould be brought to life and practiced. As a prophet, Muhammad&#8217;s mission and goal was to establish a<br \/>\ngood dialogue with people and to communicate; to do this he not only used the various means of<br \/>\ncommunication that belonged to his era, he also took into account the psychological peculiarities of the<br \/>\nindividual and society in order to present the message in the best and most effective way.<br \/>\n{00135022 v1} 5<br \/>\nProphet Muhammad\u2019s Communication was Sensitive to the Characteristics of the Individual:<br \/>\nProphet Muhammad was careful about individual differences when conversing with people. For<br \/>\nexample, he had a conversation with a Bedouin, whose wife had given birth to a black child; the Bedouin<br \/>\ndenied that the child was his. &#8220;My wife gave birth to a black child. I want to reject this child&#8221; the Bedouin<br \/>\nsaid. Prophet Muhammad asked: &#8220;Do you have camels?&#8221; &#8220;Yes&#8221; &#8220;What color are those camels?&#8221; &#8220;Red&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Are there any white, black or grey camels among these?&#8221; &#8220;Yes, of course. There are grey camels among<br \/>\nthem.&#8221; &#8220;Well, where do you think these grey camels came from?&#8221; &#8220;O Prophet, that is in their blood; they<br \/>\ntake after the ancestors.&#8221; &#8220;Perhaps this boy has taken after someone in his ancestry (he resembles<br \/>\nthem).&#8221; The Prophet did not merely say, relying on his authority as prophet: &#8220;No, I tell you as the<br \/>\nProphet of Allah that this is your child.&#8221; Rather he spoke in a way that the Bedouin could understand,<br \/>\ntaking care to use an example that related to the Bedouin&#8217;s life, and thus, by benefiting from the<br \/>\nexperiences of the addressee he was able to solve a problem in a convincing manner by having the<br \/>\nBedouin come up with the solution himself.<br \/>\nProphet Muhammad Took into Account the Characteristics of the Society:<br \/>\nProphet Muhammad was able to understand the social psychology, as well as the individual<br \/>\ncharacteristics of the people who made up the society, and thus used different methods of<br \/>\ncommunication. For example, he acted according to the conditions of the region he was in when eating,<br \/>\ndrinking or dressing. Again, when speaking or delivering a speech, he constantly observed the abilities of the addresses who listened to him, and the examples he used were chosen from a world in which the<br \/>\naddresses lived and which they understood well. From animals, the most common examples he would<br \/>\nuse would be camels and from plants he would use the date. Some of the people around him were from<br \/>\nthe city while others were Bedouins (living in the desert). For this reason, Prophet Muhammad, while<br \/>\nforwarding a message that was to cover all ages and all people, acted wisely in the difficult task of<br \/>\nestablishing communication with the first addresses; he chose methods that were in accordance with<br \/>\ntheir concepts and thoughts, their perceptions and abilities.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Patience and Good Conduct in Communication<\/strong><br \/>\nThe Prophet showed endless patience while conveying the message of Islam to the non-Muslims. He<br \/>\nnever tired of speaking to people and sharing with them the monotheistic belief which is the essence of<br \/>\nthe religion. He was always sincere in his relationships and he abstained from useless polemics or<br \/>\nquarrels. As is stated in the Holy Qur&#8217;an, the Prophet always treated people well; he used kind words<br \/>\nand avoided rude and aggressive behavior. As a matter of fact, despite the rude behavior of some of the<br \/>\ncommunities he encountered while spreading the religion, the Prophet curbed his anger and asked Allah<br \/>\nfor salvation for them. For instance, when Prophet Muhammad went to Ta&#8217;if with Zayd ibn Haritha in<br \/>\nsearch of a freer environment in which to convey the message of Islam due to the increasing pressure in<br \/>\nMecca, the leading figures in Ta&#8217;if treated him rudely and ordered the people to stone him and drive him<br \/>\nout of the city. In response to this sad experience, Prophet Muhammad prayed that the people of Ta&#8217;if<br \/>\nwould be granted deliverance.<br \/>\n{00135022 v1} 6<br \/>\n5. Negotiations<br \/>\n<strong>How Prophet Muhammad negotiated treaties:<\/strong><br \/>\nThe Prophet (pbuh) always honored the treaties signed in the Age of Ignorance to assure peace and<br \/>\nconcord. He stated that Islam would reinforce those treaties and asserted that he could join treaties<br \/>\nregarding this issue. As a matter of fact, Prophet Muhammad signed treaties with the neighboring tribes<br \/>\nin accordance with the context of the \u201cIf enemies incline to peace, incline you also to it, and trust in<br \/>\nAllah\u201d verse.<br \/>\nThe treaties made by Prophet Muhammad were signed at the tribe to which the agreement was to be<br \/>\ncontracted or in Medina before the delegate of the other party. Before the agreements were written,<br \/>\nthe conditions were mutually debated, and as the parties reached an agreement over the articles of the<br \/>\ntreaty, the issuing phase was put into effect. If a written proposition was brought, the articles were<br \/>\nexamined, and the sections that needed to be modified were edited after the parties approved them.<br \/>\nThe Prophet would dictate the text of the treaty to his clerks given that he knew not how to read or<br \/>\nwrite. Generally Ali performed this duty. The treaty would be prepared in two copies: one copy for<br \/>\nProphet Muhammad and one copy for the other party. During the debate and writing of the treaty, the<br \/>\nwitnesses of the parties would attend and their names were also written at the end of the treaty. As a<br \/>\nmatter of fact, on the Hudaybiyah treaty, the witnesses from the Muslims were Abu Bakr, Abdurrahman<br \/>\nbin Avf and others, and the witnesses of the mushriks were Mikraz bin Hafs and others. Furthermore,<br \/>\nthe treaty would be embossed with the seal of the head of the parties.<br \/>\nTo ensure adherence to the treaties, the Prophet used expressions like \u201cuntil there still remains a drop<br \/>\nin the sea enough to wet a feather\u201d or \u201cas long as Mount Uhud exist\u201d.<br \/>\n<strong>Treaties for Peacemaking<\/strong><br \/>\nEstablishing security and unity in Medina and getting acceptance of his sovereignty, Prophet<br \/>\nMuhammad began political relations with tribes outside of Medina. He made agreements with<br \/>\nsurrounding tribes via detachments of troops or delegations he sent to them. In the second year of the<br \/>\nmigration he made agreements with several tribes between Medina and Mecca. Similar expressions are<br \/>\nused in all these agreements: they guarantee that the parties will not attack each other, and that they<br \/>\nwill remain neutral or when one of the parties is attacked, they will help each other.<br \/>\nThe Medina Charter<br \/>\nAn example is the Medina Charter, which was established by the Prophet Muhammad in Medina soon<br \/>\nafter the early Muslims\u2019 migration from Mecca to Medina. The Charter was negotiated between the<br \/>\nMuslims, led by the Prophet, and the Jewish communities and non-Muslim Arab tribes who already<br \/>\nresided in Medina; the purpose of the pact was to maintain peace and security by protecting the life and<br \/>\nproperty of all inhabitants and by guarding against injustice and aggression regardless of tribal or<br \/>\nreligious affiliations. The Charter is notable in that it does not declare the state religion to be Islam; it<br \/>\n{00135022 v1} 7<br \/>\nprotects freedom for the whole community, regardless of religious or tribal identity. \u201cBut if the enemy<br \/>\ninclines toward peace, you also incline towards peace, and trust in God: for he is the one that hears and<br \/>\nknows\u201d (8:61).<br \/>\nCo-existence is one of the finest examples of the Medina pact. A pact signed between Muhammad as<br \/>\nthe administrator of the City State of Medina and the Jews, Muslims, Christians and other tribes as the<br \/>\ncommunities (Ummah) subscribing to the pact. The pact guaranteed the right to assemble, right to free<br \/>\nspeech and freedom to practice their faith.<br \/>\nPeace Treaty of Hudaibiyah with the Quraishis<br \/>\nThe Prophet set out for Mecca with his ashab (companions) of 1,400-1,500 people and 70 sacrificial<br \/>\nanimals in the lunar month Dhu al-Qa&#8217;dah in the sixth year of Hijrah. His purpose was to remove the<br \/>\nhostility between them and the Quraishis, forget events of the past and maintain good relations and<br \/>\nperform umrah pilgramage. However, when Prophet Muhammad came within the reach of Mecca, they<br \/>\ncame across Busr bin Sufyan. When they learned from him that the people of Mecca were planning to<br \/>\ntreat the Muslims with hostility, Prophet Muhammad took his followers to Hudaibiyah. Because of the<br \/>\nfact that the Prophet had the intention to make peace with them when he approached Mecca, he did<br \/>\nnot retaliate against the Quraishis for preventing the Muslims access to Mecca. His sole purpose was to<br \/>\nmake a treaty and leave if not perform umrah pilgramage. He tried to achieve this by diplomatic means.<br \/>\nAs result of the bilateral diplomatic relations, the Quraishis sent Suhayl bin Amr to make a treaty.<br \/>\nAfter having debated and signed this treaty, the Prophet had accepted it under very difficult conditions<br \/>\nand terms. This was because they were not going to be able to visit Kaaba, the restitution of those<br \/>\ntaking refuge in Mecca was not going to be possible despite the restitution of those taking refuge in<br \/>\nMedina, and not a single person from Mecca was going to be allowed to enter Medina. As it can be<br \/>\nunderstood, all the articles of the treaty were to the disadvantage of Muslims. At the signing of the<br \/>\ntreaty, some of the most prominent Muslim leaders began to question the Prophet\u2019s motivation, even<br \/>\nhis claim to divine inspiration. Muhammad\u2019s diplomacy was seen as selling out his followers, who had<br \/>\nsacrificed everything in support of the Prophet\u2019s vision.<br \/>\nHowever, despite all these negativities, the Prophet signed a ten-year truce with his greatest enemy, the<br \/>\nQuraish. This treaty consequently left the Muslims feeling hopeless. Yet, after revelations were received<br \/>\nand some incidents occurred, it was understood that this was in fact a victory for the Muslims.<br \/>\n\u2022 Zuhri explains clearly why the Hudaybiyah peace was a conquest: \u201cThere could be no greater<br \/>\nconquest than this in Islam. Previously people (pagans and believers) would fight when they<br \/>\ncame face to face. When peace was signed, war was left aside and people were sure of each<br \/>\nother. When they met face to face, they talked and debated. Some became Muslim when Islam<br \/>\nwas explained to them. Within two years after this peace, the number of new Muslims was<br \/>\ngreater than the previous number of Muslims.\u201d<br \/>\n{00135022 v1} 8<br \/>\n6. Mediation<br \/>\n<strong>Skills in Mediation<\/strong><br \/>\nProphet Muhammad was always an unbiased arbitrator and leader who acted justly to defend the<br \/>\nmiddle ground. His ability to arbitrate was recognized not only by the Muslims, but also by the nonMuslims. Probably for this reason, the non-Muslims asked him to arbitrate in the conflicts that occurred<br \/>\nwith the Muslims from time to time and in the problems they had amongst themselves. For some of the<br \/>\nlegal problems that occurred among the Jews, the Prophet ruled according to Jewish law. His<br \/>\ncommitment to justice and his reliable character were well-known long before he became a prophet.<br \/>\nFor example, he arbitrated in a disagreement among the Quraishis in Mecca regarding who should<br \/>\nreplace the al-Hajar al-Aswad (the Black Stone, considered holy even before the advent of Islam, as it is<br \/>\nsaid to have descended from heaven) in the walls of the Ka&#8217;ba after renovations had been completed on<br \/>\nthe building. By finding a way for the tribes to cooperate equally in the task, he prevented a tense<br \/>\nsituation from escalating into war.<br \/>\nProphet Muhammad Used Sympathy to Affect the Person Being Addressed:<br \/>\nAllah introduced His Prophet as &#8220;Let it be sworn that such a prophet has come among you that any<br \/>\ntroubles you have will be troublesome for him; he is fond of you, he is tender, merciful to the believers.&#8221;<br \/>\n(10) The expression in the Qur&#8217;an: &#8220;Now hath come unto you an Apostle from amongst Yourselves&#8221; (11)<br \/>\nfocuses on the empathetic attitude of the Prophet. In a hadith the Prophet wanted to try to have the<br \/>\nbelievers understand one another and to understand what each other were feeling: &#8220;&#8230;.when a servant<br \/>\ndoes not want for his neighbor or brother what he wants for himself then he does not fully believe.&#8221; (12)<br \/>\nThe Ka\u2019ba Arbitration<br \/>\nThe Prophet Muhammad\u2019s arbitration between the major clans of the Quraysh tribe when the<br \/>\nsacred black corner stone, called Aswad, fell off the wall of the Kaaba carries great importance.<br \/>\nHe was trusted by all the tribes, even those at odds with each other, they could count on him to<br \/>\nalways be truthful. No clan chief wanted to relinquish this great honor of reinserting the Black<br \/>\nStone to any other. There were even those who suggested fighting for the right. The infighting<br \/>\namong the tribes began as to who would be privileged to place the stone back in its place, as<br \/>\nthe conflict grew, they called upon Muhammad (the truthful and just) to find the solution.<br \/>\nMuhammad was inherently a peace maker, and strove for peace among the communities. The<br \/>\nfuture Prophet of Islam spread his mantle on a piece of cloth on the ground and, placing the<br \/>\nBlack Stone on it, invited the chiefs of the four major clans entrusted with repairing the Ka&#8217;ba to<br \/>\neach take one corner of the cloth. When they raised the Black Stone to the spot where it was to<br \/>\nbe inserted, the Prophet took it and inserted it firmly in its position. As a result, potential clan<br \/>\nwar among the Quraysh was prevented. Muhammad wanted us to understand that Fairness<br \/>\nand Justice sustains peace longer than any other thing.<br \/>\n{00135022 v1} 9<br \/>\n7. Possible actions on intervention in the conflict<br \/>\nAn example for promoting inter-ethnic harmony:<br \/>\nProphet Muhammad always promoted tolerance and inter-communal harmony<br \/>\n\u2022 The framework of the Medina agreement with the non-Muslims shortly after the arrival in<br \/>\nMedina is the perfect example that shows that Prophet Muhammad was searching for good<br \/>\nrelationships with these different grou[s and it makes clear his intentions. In this agreement not<br \/>\nonly was there freedom of religion and conscience, but it was also based on the fundamentals of<br \/>\ngood reciprocal relations. In the treaties that were drawn up one can see the special care given<br \/>\nto the rights of life, property and religion. Despite the hostile attitude demonstrated against the<br \/>\nMuslims, including assassination attempts against Prophet Muhammad, until the situation<br \/>\nbecame clearly one of war there were no armed struggles on the part of the Muslims. Before<br \/>\nbattle, during the battle and afterwards there was no hostile attitude displayed against holy<br \/>\nobjects. After the battles the Muslims behaved justly and they were reminded that it was<br \/>\nforbidden to abuse any property of those with whom they had agreements.<br \/>\n\u2022 In daily life, Prophet Muhammad continued to have socio-economic relations with the nonMuslims; from time to time he gave and took loans from non-Muslims. There is a very<br \/>\ninteresting account of how the Prophet pawned his armor to a non-Muslim in return for a sum<br \/>\nof money. According to Aisha, the Prophet passed away while his armor was still in the<br \/>\npossession of a Jew (Bukhari, Jihad 89, Maghazi 86; Muslim, Musaqat 124-126). Also, within the<br \/>\nscope of the good relationships he had established with other people, the Prophet always<br \/>\naccepted invitations from non-Muslims and listened to them. In fact, once he accepted an<br \/>\ninvitation from a Jewish man who then tried to assassinate him.<br \/>\n\u2022 The Prophet would sometimes discuss the problems the Jews were encountering and visit them<br \/>\nin the Beytu&#8217;l Midras where the Torah was being read. (48) He stood up when a Jewish funeral<br \/>\npassed in front of him, and he recommended that the other Muslims do the same. (49) He made<br \/>\na Jewish boy happy by frequently visiting the boy when he was ill. (50) Prophet Muhammad<br \/>\nexpressed the priority given to close neighbors, saying &#8220;Even if your neighbor is a Jew, they have<br \/>\nprior rights.&#8221; (51) Prophet Muhammad entered into trade relations with the Jews. In fact,<br \/>\nProphet Muhammad purchased some provisions a Jewish trader, and left his armor as collateral.<br \/>\n(52) When Prophet Muhammad died it is reported that his armor was in the possession of a Jew<br \/>\nin lieu of payment. (53) Some of the Companions entered into debt trading with Jews and<br \/>\nrequested help Prophet Muhammad on this matter. (54)<br \/>\nConstructiveness and respect of diversity<br \/>\n\u2022 The Prophet was always constructive in his relationships with people, whether they were<br \/>\nbelievers or not. In particular, he maintained good relations, particularly in the Medinan period,<br \/>\nwith the Jewish tribes and the Arab polytheists with whom he lived as long as they did not show<br \/>\nhostility towards the Muslims and did not violate any mutual treaties. Prophet Muhammad saw<br \/>\nno harm in different communities living together, with each community contributing something<br \/>\nuseful to society. For instance, Muslims and non-Muslims were able to live together in peace in<br \/>\nMedina under the agreement known as \u201cThe Medina Document\u201d, which was signed by the<br \/>\n{00135022 v1} 10<br \/>\ndifferent groups living there in the early Medinan period. The different communities undertook<br \/>\ncommon responsibilities to form a society; this situation could continue as long as the provisions<br \/>\nof the agreement were not violated. The Prophet even worked with Arab polytheists who had<br \/>\nbeen prisoners of war. For instance, after the Battle of Badr, the Muslims benefited from the<br \/>\nability to read and write that some of the idolaters and prisoners had: in return for their release,<br \/>\nthey taught the Muslims how to read and write.<br \/>\n***END***<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>September 15, 2012 Qamar-ul Huda, Ph.D. United States Institute of Peace Religion &amp; Peacemaking Center \u201cPeacebuilding: A Collection of Stories and Anecdotes from the Prophet Muhammad\u2019s Life\u201d &nbsp; 1. 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