{"id":640,"date":"2012-07-18T08:39:36","date_gmt":"2012-07-18T06:39:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/investigate-islam.com\/web\/web\/?p=640"},"modified":"2012-07-18T08:39:36","modified_gmt":"2012-07-18T06:39:36","slug":"unethical-behavior-or-immorality-and-its-remedy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/investigate-islam.com\/web\/?p=640","title":{"rendered":"UNETHICAL BEHAVIOR OR IMMORALITY AND ITS REMEDY"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A Muslim as a first priority should strive to cleanse his<br \/>\n(spiritual) heart because heart is the leader of the body and all<br \/>\norgans are under its command. Our Prophet Muhammad \u2018sall-<br \/>\nAll\u00e2hu \u2019alaihi wa sal-lam\u2019 once said: \u201cThere is a piece of flesh<br \/>\nin the human body. If this is good, all the organs will be<br \/>\ngood. If this is evil, all the organs will be evil. This piece of<br \/>\n[1] Wal\u00ee (pl. Awliy\u00e2) means a person close and beloved to All\u00e2hu ta\u2019\u00e2l\u00e2.<\/p>\n<p>flesh is the heart.\u201d What is described in this had\u00eeth is not the<br \/>\nphysical heart but the spiritual heart which is located in the<br \/>\nphysical heart. The goodness of the flesh, as explained above,<br \/>\nmeans its being cleansed from vices and its assimilation of<br \/>\ngood morals (virtues). The physical appearance of a human<br \/>\nbeing is called (khalq). The power or state that exists in the<br \/>\nheart is called habits (khulq). Vices in the heart are called<br \/>\n\u201cmaladies of the heart\u201d or unacceptable morals (akhl\u00e2q alzam\u00eema).<br \/>\nTheir cure is a very difficult task. Correct treatment<br \/>\nrequires extremely sophisticated knowledge about the maladies<br \/>\nand correct methodology to apply this knowledge. Habits are<br \/>\nthe faculties (malakas) or states or desires in the heart. It is this<br \/>\npower in the spiritual heart which generates man\u2019s belief,<br \/>\nwords, actions. His optional behaviour also is the work of (this<br \/>\npower which is called his) khulq.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\nChanging or transforming the state of the heart from<br \/>\nundesirable, unwanted, unacceptable morals or habits to<br \/>\ndesirable, good habits is possible. Our Prophet \u2018sall-All\u00e2hu<br \/>\n\u2019alaihi wa sal-lam\u2019 once said, \u201cImprove your morals (habits or<br \/>\ncharacter).\u201d Islam does not contain commandments that<br \/>\ncannot be accomplished. Experiences also show that this is the<br \/>\ncase. [Experience is only one of the three true-knowledgeacquirement<br \/>\nmethods. The other two true-knowledgeacquirement-<br \/>\nmethods are understanding through calculation<br \/>\nand information passed to us by our Prophet.] Human beings<br \/>\ndo not share equal abilities to correct their unacceptable,<br \/>\ndeficient morals.<br \/>\nOrigin or source or fountain of morals is three powers<br \/>\ninherent in the human soul. The first one is the power of<br \/>\nunderstanding (comprehension) of the soul. This is also called<br \/>\n\u201cnutq\u201d or wisdom (\u2019aql). The first and second powers of \u201cnutq\u201d<br \/>\nare theoretical knowledge (hikmat al-nazar\u00ee) and practical<br \/>\nknowledge (hikmat al-\u2019amal\u00ee) respectively. Theoretical<br \/>\nknowledge which exists in average proportions is called reason<br \/>\n(hikmat). Reason is the power that differentiates between virtue<br \/>\nand vice; right and wrong; and good and evil. A state of excess<br \/>\nin this power is termed jarbaza (the state of being a wiseacre).<br \/>\nA person who suffers from this excess tries to understand<br \/>\nthings beyond comprehension. For example, he tries to<br \/>\ninterpret verses of the Qur\u2019\u00e2n with hidden or metaphorical<br \/>\nmeanings (mutash\u00e2b\u00eeh \u00e2yats) or talks about fate and destiny<\/p>\n<p>or occupies himself with futile pursuits such as deceit, trickery,<br \/>\nand sorcery. Conversely, inadequacy of this power is termed<br \/>\nidiocy (bal\u00e2dat). A person suffering from this inadequacy<br \/>\ncannot differentiate between vice and virtue. When the practical<br \/>\npower of nutq (wisdom) exists in an average intensity, this state<br \/>\nis called justice (\u2019ad\u00e2lat). There cannot be paucity or plentitude<br \/>\nin justice.<br \/>\nThe second power of the sources of morals is wrath<br \/>\n(ghadab). It is the bestial aspect of the soul. Things which it<br \/>\ndislikes and loathes stir its blood. When this force is subdued to<br \/>\na reasonable intensity by the human aspect of the soul, it<br \/>\ndevelops into bravery (shaj\u00e2\u2019at), which prompts man to<br \/>\npractical and useful enterprises. Examples of this are Muslims\u2019<br \/>\nfighting against disbelievers whose numbers are more than<br \/>\ndouble theirs and their saving the oppressed from their<br \/>\noppressors. An excess in this force is tahawwur, which causes<br \/>\naggressiveness. A person with this temperament becomes<br \/>\nangry fast. If this power exists in less than average proportions,<br \/>\nit is called cowardice (jubn). A person having this character will<br \/>\nnot be able to attempt to do the necessary actions.<br \/>\nThe third power of the human soul is appetite (shahwat). It<br \/>\nis the bestial soul\u2019s desiring the things that it likes. The human<br \/>\naspect of the soul mollifies this desire into what we call chastity<br \/>\n(iffat), or honor. A person who has chastity gratifies the needs<br \/>\nof his nature in a manner prescibed by Islam and compatible<br \/>\nwith humanity. Excess in this is called greed or debauchery<br \/>\n(sharah). A person having this character tries to obtain all his<br \/>\ndesires and wishes without regard to laws or others\u2019 rights.<br \/>\nWhen appetite is less than average proportions in one\u2019s nature,<br \/>\nit causes a lazy character (hum\u00fbd). A person with this<br \/>\ncharacter will not even try to get things that are necessary for<br \/>\nhimself either because of his extreme sense of shame, fear or<br \/>\npride, or because of his (psychological) illness.<br \/>\nThe aforesaid four temperate forces, i.e. hikmat (reason),<br \/>\n\u2019ad\u00e2lat (justice), iffat (chastity), and shaj\u00e2\u2019at (bravery), are the<br \/>\nessence of all virtues. When a person adapts himself to hikmat,<br \/>\nwhich is one of the three forces of the soul, he overcomes the<br \/>\nother two forces of the bestial soul, i.e., ghadab and shahwat,<br \/>\nand attains happiness by developing these two excesses into<br \/>\niffat (chastity) and shaj\u00e2\u2019at (bravery). If the theoretical force of<br \/>\nwisdom fails to abide by hikmat, which is its temperate degree,<\/p>\n<p>and overflows unto either one of the vicious extremities, vices<br \/>\nwill appear. All six extremities are always evil. In fact, even the<br \/>\nfour temperate forces are evil when they are employed for evil<br \/>\npurposes. Examples of employing hikmat for evil purposes are:<br \/>\nto go into a religious career for the purpose of an easy<br \/>\ncompetence or a high position, and to perform (the daily<br \/>\nprayers termed) nam\u00e2z or (the struggle for the promulgation<br \/>\nand propagation of Islam, which should be done only to please<br \/>\nAll\u00e2hu ta\u2019\u00e2l\u00e2 and which is termed) jih\u00e2d for ostentation. On the<br \/>\nother hand, abstention from a certain kind of pleasure in order<br \/>\nto gratify one\u2019s desire to enjoy another kind of pleasure would<br \/>\nbe a good example of misusing iffat.<br \/>\nEach of the four main virtues is recognized by their<br \/>\nattributes. For example, wisdom has seven attributes. Bravery<br \/>\nand chastity have eleven attributes each.<br \/>\nREMEDY FOR THE VICES: A medicine that would be a<br \/>\ncommon cure for all the vices is the recognition of the illness<br \/>\nand things that are harmful to it, its cause, its opposite case, as<br \/>\nwell as effects of the medicine. The next step would be the<br \/>\ndiagnosis of the illness, which is done either by self-research or<br \/>\nunder the supervision of a guide, i.e. an \u2019\u00e2lim (a deeply learned<br \/>\nIslamic scholar). A Believer is another Believer\u2019s mirror. Selfdiagnosis<br \/>\nof one\u2019s faults is a difficult task. A recommendable<br \/>\nway of knowing your own faults, therefore, would be to consult<br \/>\nwith a dependable friend. A faithful friend is one who will protect<br \/>\nyou against dangers and fearful situations. Such a friend is hard<br \/>\nto come by. It is to this effect that Im\u00e2m Sh\u00e2fi\u2019\u00ee \u2018rahmatull\u00e2hi<br \/>\n\u2019aleyh\u2019 stated:<br \/>\nA staunch friend and true medicine,<br \/>\nAre hard to find, waste not your time.<br \/>\nAnd Hadrat \u2019Umar \u2018radiy-All\u00e2hu \u2019anh\u2019 stated:<br \/>\nMy friend\u2019s warned me about my fault,<br \/>\nThis is the true essence of brotherhood.<br \/>\nSince your adversaries will always be seeking ways for<br \/>\ncriticizing you, they will fling your shortcomings to your teeth<br \/>\nonce they find them. Such inimical comments therefore can be<br \/>\nexploited as efficient references to learn about your faults.<br \/>\nGood friends, by contrast, will mostly be inclined to overlook<br \/>\nyour faults. One day, someone begged Hadrat Ibr\u00e2h\u00eem Ad-ham,<br \/>\n(a great Islamic scholar and a Wal\u00ee,) to tell him about his faults<\/p>\n<p>and shortcomings. \u201cI have made a friend of you. So, all your<br \/>\nmanners and ways appear nice to me. Ask someone else about<br \/>\nyour faults,\u201d was the great scholar\u2019s reply. Another way of<br \/>\nrecognizing your shortcomings is to observe others\u2019 faults.<br \/>\nWhen you observe others\u2019 faults, you should try and see if you<br \/>\nhave the same fault(s), and, if you see that you do, you should<br \/>\ntry to get rid of them. This way of identifying vices is another<br \/>\nmethod for curing the vices and is the meaning of the following<br \/>\nhad\u00eeth, \u201cA Believer (Mu\u2019min) is a mirror of another<br \/>\nBeliever.\u201d In other words, you identify your own faults in others\u2019<br \/>\nfaults. When Jesus (\u00ces\u00e2 \u2018alaihis-sal\u00e2m\u2019) was asked who he had<br \/>\nlearned his virtues from, he answered: \u201cI did not learn them<br \/>\nfrom anyone. I looked at others, observed the things I did not<br \/>\nlike and I avoided doing the same, copying and imitating the<br \/>\nthings I liked.\u201d When the famous doctor Lokman was asked<br \/>\nwho he had learned manners from, he replied, \u201cFrom people<br \/>\nwithout manners!\u201d Reading about the biographies and episodes<br \/>\nof Islamic luminaries, such as the (blessed people called) Salaf<br \/>\nas-s\u00e2lih\u00een, the Sah\u00e2ba, and other Awliy\u00e2 \u2018rahmatull\u00e2hi \u2019alaihim<br \/>\najma\u2019\u00een\u2019, is another way of forming good habits.[1]<br \/>\nA person who has a vice should search for the reason<br \/>\n(cause) of his contracting that vice. He should try to eliminating<br \/>\nthis cause and then try to get rid of it by doing its opposite. He<br \/>\nshould try very hard to do the opposite of the vice for getting rid<br \/>\nof it. For, getting rid of a vice is very difficult. The nafs loves evil<br \/>\nand ugly things.<br \/>\nAnother useful medicine for getting rid of vices is to establish<br \/>\na method of retribution. For example, when one commits a vice,<br \/>\nimmediately afterwards, one should do some action one\u2019s nafs<br \/>\ndoes not like. A good way of accomplishing this is to take an<br \/>\noath. Namely, one should take an oath to the effect that if one<br \/>\ncommits a vice, one will do extra goodness such as giving alms,<br \/>\nfasting or performing sal\u00e2ts. Since one\u2019s nafs never likes to do<br \/>\nextra prayers, one will stop committing vices. Another useful<br \/>\nmedicine is reading or hearing from others about those vices<br \/>\nwhich produce harmful results. Many had\u00eeths inform us about<br \/>\nthe harms of vices. Some of them are:<br \/>\n[1] For terms such as Wal\u00ee, Awliy\u00e2 (pl. of Wal\u00ee), the Sah\u00e2ba, Salaf ass\u00e2lih\u00een,<br \/>\nsee our other publications, e.g. Sah\u00e2ba \u2018The Blessed\u2019,<br \/>\navailable from Hak\u00eekat Kit\u00e2bevi, F\u00e2tih, Istanbul, Turkey.<\/p>\n<p>1\u2013 \u201cIn the sight of All\u00e2hu ta\u2019\u00e2l\u00e2, there is no sin graver<br \/>\nthan vices.\u201d For, those who commit vices are not aware that<br \/>\nthey are committing sins. Therefore, they do not repent for their<br \/>\nsins so that their sins accumulate and increase many folds.<br \/>\n2\u2013 \u201cThe one sin which human beings commit without<br \/>\nany hesitation or reservation is being a person with vices.\u201d<br \/>\n3\u2013 \u201cThere is a repentance for every sort of sin but there<br \/>\nis none for vices. Instead of repenting for a certain vice,<br \/>\nthe offender commits something worse.\u201d<br \/>\n4\u2013 \u201cAs hot water melts an ice cube, likewise virtues melt<br \/>\nmistakes and errors. As vinegar destroys honey, likewise<br \/>\nvices destroy rewards (thaw\u00e2bs) for good deeds.\u201d<br \/>\nJustice (\u2019adalat), chastity (iffat), bravery (shaj\u00e2\u2019at) and<br \/>\nwisdom (hikmat), when they are not used with evil intentions<br \/>\nare the sources of all virtues. One should associate with pious<br \/>\n(s\u00e2lih) and good-natured people in order to be a good-natured<br \/>\nperson or to protect one\u2019s virtues. A person\u2019s akhl\u00e2q will be like<br \/>\nhis companion\u2019s habits. Akhl\u00e2q is contagious like a disease.<br \/>\nOne should not make friends with ill-humoured people. It is<br \/>\nstated as follows in a had\u00eeth-i-sher\u00eef: \u201cA person\u2019s faith will be<br \/>\nlike his companion\u2019s.\u201d One should shun from useless<br \/>\noccupations and games, harmful jokes, and quarrels. One<br \/>\nshould learn knowledge and do useful deeds. One should not<br \/>\nread books that undermine one\u2019s morals or which promotes sex<br \/>\nand should not watch television programs or listen to radio<br \/>\nprograms destructive of moral values or which arouse sexual<br \/>\ndesires. One should constantly remind oneself of the benefits of<br \/>\nvirtues and harmful effects of Islam\u2019s prohibitions and the<br \/>\npunishment they will incur in Hell. None of the pursuers of<br \/>\nwealth and position has attained his wish. However, those who<br \/>\nhave wanted rank and worldly possessions to do good deeds<br \/>\nwith them have lived comfortably and happily. Worldly ranks<br \/>\nand possessions should not be one\u2019s goals but instead they<br \/>\nshould be vehicles to do goodness to others. Worldly ranks and<br \/>\npossessions are like an ocean and many people are drowned in<br \/>\nthat ocean. Fear of All\u00e2hu ta\u2019\u00e2l\u00e2 is the ship which one needs to<br \/>\nsurvive in that ocean. Our Prophet \u2018sall-All\u00e2hu \u2019alaihi wa sallam\u2019<br \/>\nonce said, \u201cOne should live in the world not like a<br \/>\npermanent resident but like a traveler, and should never<br \/>\nforget that he will die!\u201d Human beings will not live in this world<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">forever. When one is absorbed in worldly pleasures, one\u2019s<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">troubles, worries and distress will increase. The following<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">had\u00eeths should never be forgotten:<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n1\u2013 \u201cA slave of All\u00e2hu ta\u2019\u00e2l\u00e2 who has not performed<br \/>\nmany acts of worship will have high grades in the Hereafter<br \/>\nif he has good morals.\u201d<br \/>\n2\u2013 \u201cThe easiest and the most useful worship is to talk<br \/>\nlittle and to be a good-natured person.\u201d<br \/>\n3\u2013 \u201cA slave of All\u00e2hu ta\u2019\u00e2l\u00e2 may have many worships<br \/>\nbut, his evil humour will deliver him into the depths of hell.<br \/>\nIt will sometimes lead him into disbelief.\u201d<br \/>\n4\u2013 It is reported that once the Sah\u00e2ba \u2018radiy-All\u00e2hu \u2019anhum\u2019<br \/>\ntold of a very devout worshipper to the Messenger of Allah \u2018sall-<br \/>\nAll\u00e2hu \u2019alaihi wa sal-lam\u2019. That person was spending his days<br \/>\nfasting and his nights praying, yet he was bad tempered.<br \/>\nRas\u00fblullah \u2018sall-All\u00e2hu \u2019alaihi wa sal-lam\u2019 answered, \u201cIt is not a<br \/>\ngood state. His destination will be Hell fire.\u201d<br \/>\n5\u2013 \u201cI was sent to complement the virtues and to help<br \/>\npeople so that they may assimilate these virtues.\u201d The<br \/>\nvirtues also existed in the previously sent monotheistic<br \/>\nreligions. Islam was sent to complement those virtues. Since<br \/>\nthis religion exists with all the good commandments and habits,<br \/>\nthere is no need for another source to inform us regarding the<br \/>\nvirtues. Therefore, no other prophet will come after the Prophet<br \/>\nMuhammad \u2018sall-All\u00e2hu \u2019alaihi wa sal-lam\u2019.<br \/>\n6\u2013 \u201cA good-natured person will attain both worldly and<br \/>\nnext worldly happiness.\u201d A person with virtues performs his<br \/>\nobligations toward All\u00e2hu ta\u2019\u00e2l\u00e2 and His creatures.<br \/>\n7\u2013 \u201cHell fire will not burn a person who has a good<br \/>\nnature and a beautiful physical appearance.\u201d<br \/>\n8\u2013 \u201cTo be good-natured means to keep close to (and to<br \/>\nbe in good terms with) those who keep away from you, to<br \/>\nforgive those who have hurt you, and to be generous to<br \/>\nthose who have been miserly toward you.\u201d A good-natured<br \/>\nperson will do goodness to those who keep cross with him or<br \/>\nhe will forgive those who harm his honor or hurt him physically<br \/>\nor materially.<br \/>\n9\u2013 \u201cAll\u00e2hu ta\u2019\u00e2l\u00e2 will fill the heart of a person with belief<br \/>\nand trustworthiness if he treats others with soft manners<\/p>\n<p>angry as he may be.\u201d He will have no fears or anxieties. The<br \/>\nbest of all virtues is to do goodness to people who treat you<br \/>\nimproperly. This behavior is a sign of maturity and it converts<br \/>\nyour enemies into friends. Im\u00e2m Ghaz\u00e2l\u00ee \u2018rahmatull\u00e2hi \u2019aleyh\u2019<br \/>\nsays that he has read the following statements in the Inj\u00eel<br \/>\n(Bible), which was revealed to \u00ces\u00e2 (Jesus) \u2018alaihis-sal\u00e2m\u2019: \u201cBut I<br \/>\nsay unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite<br \/>\nthee on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.\u201d \u201cAnd if any<br \/>\nman will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him<br \/>\nhave thy cloak also.\u201d (Matt: 5-39,40)[1] Books inform us about<br \/>\nthe cruelties, oppression and torture of Muslims and Jews by<br \/>\nChristians in Spain during the Spanish inquisitions, in India, in<br \/>\nBosnia-Herzegovina and in Jerusalem as well as against each<br \/>\nother by the Inquisition courts. Their uncivilized behavior proves<br \/>\nthat they are not following the true teachings of the Inj\u00eel.<br \/>\nEvery Muslim should get rid of vices residing in his heart and<br \/>\nreplace them with virtues. One cannot be a good-natured<br \/>\nperson by replacing a few vices with a few good ones. A Sufi<br \/>\norder is the path which makes one attain maturity, i.e.,<br \/>\nperfection in all virtues. [A path that cannot provide this maturity<br \/>\ncannot be called a Sufi path. As it often happens, there are<br \/>\nsham practitioners in every field of endeavor. Likewise, there<br \/>\nare some in the field of knowledge and Sufi Path (tar\u00eeqat) who<br \/>\nrepresent themselves as shaikhs (spiritual guides). In reality,<br \/>\nthey know nothing about the real Islam and beautiful moral<br \/>\nteachings of Islam. We should avoid these types and their<br \/>\ntraps.]<br \/>\nSixty vices are well known. We translated and included forty<br \/>\nof them in forty sub-chapters. A person who avoids these vices<br \/>\nand does their opposites will be a virtuous or good-natured<br \/>\nperson.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>source\u00a0 : ETHICS OF ISLAM<br \/>\nAl\u00ee bin Emrullah Muhammed H\u00e2dim\u00ee<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A Muslim as a first priority should strive to cleanse his (spiritual) heart because heart is the leader of the body and all organs are under its command. 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